En Abse n t i a

Now on view through February 1, 2026

What opens a window to a loved one that we’ve lost?
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What actions, skills, knowledge, objects, rituals?...

Join us, open minded and open hearted, to see how others have answered this question.

Explore memorial art through 3D portraiture, poetry, smell, precious stone sculpture, reimagining of sacred objects, and the queering of genealogy. 

Come to reflect on how you stay connected and remember, in this space that can uniquely hold the complexity of emotion around the absence of beloveds.


Imagined by artist and Queer Arts Featured contributor Lisa Niedermeyer, along with collaborators:

Devlin Shand

Fatima Zaidi

Esperanza Rubio

EnSeanTé/Sean Owens


3D scanning workshop Jan 21, 2026

Bring a treasured item that connects you to the memory of a beloved for a hands on workshop at Queer AF.  Learn about the art of 3D scanning and the process of interpretation when composing portraits in 360 degree interactive views. Share your stories and connect with others during the holiday and new year season.


Led by artist and tech educator Lisa Niedermeyer

Exhibit open until Feb 1, 2026

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